So, I am finding myself with wildly different species of desire these days. But, seeing how maturity means being able to hold onto contradictions rather than trying to dissolve them, I am hopeful in the potentials that putting this out may open up. I am a 33 yearold woman, often told I look much younger, with the presence of someone who has lived more decades. Though I can't read minds so I can't say why, eyes turn my way when I walk in a room. Sometimes, when I want them to, my hips can mesmerize. I love articulate hands, callouses and scars. I'm a connoisseur of pretty brown boys with shaved heads, pleasures of the intellect and body, the poetics of loss, listening as a necessary part of talking. Although I think I fit into most conventional definitions of physical beauty, I am rarely fully satisfied with the attention I attract. I would like to A. Mentor someone inexperienced, eager to learn. Think Almodovar's Live Flesh. I'm into the idea of helping to set someone on a path of sex positive exploration. Even better if the mentee has bright eyes and easy smiles, a toned physique, would call me nuna ignore this last bit unless it applies to you. B. Be woo'ed by someone who evokes my fantasy Korean male partner with whom I can share language and family though my family history is complicated and I wouldn't want to be judged in comparison to a normative family model, who would be affectionate and attentive to me, would find it easy to connect with my chosen family as well as birth family, has cultivated a sophisticated emotional vocabulary, would gracefully travel from a kitchen table conversation with my mom and sister to navigating the Korean male social hierarchy thing with my uncles. C. Connect and play with people who are grounded yet fluid, broadly defined, and hot also broadly defined. So far, I've been mostly invested in the practice of queering heterosexuality, but haven't had as many opportunities as I would have liked with women and gender queer

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